SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
with Fred Talisman MFT
Call or text Fred now at 310-429-3658
Relationship Saving Marriage Counseling for over 20 Years

“You Can Save Your Relationship Even If You Think It’s Too Late, Even If You Fear It’s Beyond Saving and Even If You’re The Only One Who Wants To Save It!”

 As A Relationship Saving Licensed Marriage Counselor In Practice For Over 20+ Years, I’ve Taught Countless People, Who Were On The Verge Of Losing Their Relationship For Good, How To Stop Their Breakup. I’ll Show You Exactly What To Say And Do To Save Your Relationship And To Keep Your Family Together

 

From: Fred R. Talisman MFT

I’ve been called “the world’s leading authority on saving relationships.” Perhaps, I’ve been called that because of my years of training and spending over 20+ years, as a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, showing clients how to successfully stop their breakup.

If your partner has told you that they want to leave you and you’re finally ready to learn how to do what it takes to save your relationship and make it work for both of you, then I invite you to read the following letter.

My approach has changed the lives of countless people just like you. I encourage you to read the letter below and let me show you how you can learn how to save your relationship.

Take care,


Fred R. Talisman
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Dear Friend,

You may be afraid that it’s too late to save your relationship. You may think it’s hopeless. You may think it’s past saving. You may fear that you’ve blown it.

You may feel that you’ve tried everything to save your relationship and nothing that you’ve done is working.

You’re fighting for your relationship. You want it to work but you know what you’re doing isn’t working. Your heart feels broken. It’s like you’re in a bad dream waiting to wake up.

Perhaps, you’re hoping, beyond hope, that there really is a way to save your relationship and that you can learn what to say and do that will actually save it.

I specialize in saving romantic relationships that are one step away from permanently ending.

Watch the Video above to find out How to Save Your Relationship:

Note: this content has been excerpted from talk show host Anne Evans’ recent interview of 20+ year Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist Fred R. Talisman)

Most relationships can be saved

It’s my experience that most love relationships that end, do so unnecessarily. They end for the wrong reasons. In most cases, if even one partner in a relationship had gotten the right kind of knowledge and had brought that knowledge back into the relationship, that one partner could actually have stopped the breakup.

It’s my mission to teach you what it takes to save your relationship.

Here’s an example of how I help people to save their relationship:

A new client called in for his first phone session. He told me that he had cheated on his wife and she had just found out about it and had told him, “That’s it. I’m leaving. The marriage is over.” He felt devastated. The more he begged her for a second chance, the angrier she got.

I told him 4 simple things to say to her, how to say them to her, and the right timing to say them to her.

A week later, he called in for his next session with me. He was very excited. He said, “My wife continued to tell me that our marriage was over and that she had already given the divorce attorney a retainer. She had said ‘I want you to pack your bags and get out of here as soon as possible.’

I told her the 4 things you had taught me. She just looked at me and stared. Tears started welling up in her eyes. I think we sat for 10 minutes just looking at each other, both crying. She finally said, ‘I love you, too. Maybe there is hope for us. I’m willing to try, if you are’.”

Over the years I’ve developed strategies to help my clients save their relationships. Those same strategies that work for my clients can also work for you.

Which of the following describes your relationship from your perspective or your partner’s?

  • You cheated on me. How can I get past the hurt and feeling of betrayal and should I? How can I ever trust you again?
  • You’ve lied to me lots of times. I don’t know when you’re telling me the truth. I don’t trust you.
  • I love you but I no longer feel in love with you.
  • I feel worn out by all the bickering and fighting.
  • I’m sick and tired of all the verbal abuse, criticism, lack of respect and putdowns.
  • I’m ready to leave the relationship but I really don’t want to. I just don’t know how to make it work for me.
  • We have no way to work things out. We keep having the same fights over and over again. Nothing ever gets resolved.
  • I no longer feel attracted to you.
  • I feel overwhelmed with the idea that our relationship is on the rocks, and I don’t know what to do.
  • I fear that our love has been eroded to the point of no return.
  • I’m tired of doing all of the work in the relationship.
  • We have so little affection, I feel more like we’re roommates.
  • I’ve only been staying in the relationship for the kid’s sake, but I’m no longer sure that’s best for them and its sure not working for me.
  • We’re at a crossroads and if we can’t find a way to make it work, I have no other choice but to break up with you.
  • I’ve tried everything to make this work and nothing has helped. This is my last hope.
  • I asked you to go to couple counseling with me and you wouldn’t go. Now it’s too late.
  • We tried couple counseling and it didn’t work.
  • We have very little in common and few common interests.
  • We’re already separated and it’s not getting any better.
  • I feel like whatever I do isn’t good enough for you. I feel like I’m in a no-win situation.
  • I no longer feel attractive to my partner.
  • I don’t feel heard or understood by you.
  • We each have a lot of baggage that weighs heavily on the relationship and sometimes that baggage feels insurmountable. It creates fighting and mistrust.
  • We don’t have a way to say difficult things that doesn’t lead to fighting.
  • I feel sad and mad because you turn on me. You twist my words and attack me.
  • I feel overwhelmed, numb and hopeless.I get tense before you come home because I know you’ll find fault with me.
  • We’re going through the motions of being in a relationship, but we’re getting more and more distant.
  • The relationship hasn’t been emotionally fulfilling to me for a long time.
  • I fell in love with someone else. But, you and I have kids together. I’m confused. I don’t know what to do.
  • You said you were unhappy and wanted to split up. Then, you changed your mind. I don’t know what to believe and I no longer feel safe in this relationship with you.



What It Takes To Save Your Relationship:

Some people get to the point of ending their relationship because of a single incident like finding out their partner cheated on them. For others, its been a long slow build up of hurts, frustrations, anger, resentments, disappointments, and let downs.

What it takes to create a turning point in your relationship so that your partner is willing to give you another chance and to be cooperative with you, is not about having the secret magic words that will instantly turn them around.

It’s more like having the ability to open a combination lock. To have all of the correct #s and to be able to dial them into the lock in the correct order to open it up.

You have to know how to successfully, effectively and concretely respond to all of their concerns and reservations about you and the relationship, both the concerns that are stated directly and the ones that are implied.

I’ve taken everything that I’ve successfully used over the last 20+ years as a relationship counselor to stop breakups and put it into a step-by-step guide for you called “Save Your Relationship.” You can get it in e-workbook form and be on the way to getting the skills you need to start saving your relationship in the next 7 minutes.

If you say or do the wrong thing, even once, it can undo all of the progress you’re making. Therefore its also critical to know what not to do. I’ll show you:

  • How you can understand why what you’ve been doing isn’t working and may actually be making things worse.
  • Why making claims or promises to your partner like “I’ve changed or I’ll never do it again” actually builds greater distrust, anger and/or resentment in your partner.
  • Why trying to prove your point actually works against you, pushes your partner further away and makes your partner get more upset.
  • Why getting things off your chest or trying to talk things out when one or both of you is upset is virtually guaranteed to make things worse, and what to do instead.
  • The trigger words that push your partner’s buttons and guarantee you’re headed for a fight.


I will show you what it takes to Save Your Relationship
step by step including exactly what to say and do:

  • You’ll learn the single most effective communication skill you’ll need to save your relationship.
  • How to rebuild trust and get another chance if you’ve cheated on your partner.
  • How to get your partner to recommit to an exclusive monogamous relationship with you when your partner says they’ve fallen in love with someone else.
  • How to rebuild trust with your partner if your partner has already given you another chance and, you broke your word again.
  • How to rebuild trust when your partner feels that you’ve lied to them and they say they don’t know what to believe anymore.
  • How to get back the loving feelings when your partner is saying “I love you but I’m no longer in love with you.”
  • How you can put an end to mean, angry, hurtful communication. How to never again have another fight or argument, without having to give in. (If you follow my directions precisely, this ALWAYS works).
  • How you can get out your frustrations and upsets with NO consequences to the relationship and without hurting your partner’s feelings.
  • What to do when your partner is saying “I’m sick and tired of all the verbal abuse, criticism, lack of respect and putdowns.” How to be the positive, loving supportive partner that you want to be for them to to stay consistent in doing that.
  • What to do when your partner is saying “we have so little affection, I feel more like we’re roommates.” How to get back the affection, romance and passion. How to get back your emotional and physical intimacy together.
  • What to do if your partner is saying, “I’ve only been staying in the relationship for the kids but I’m no longer sure that’s best for them and its sure not working for me.” How to be more that just parents together and to also be a loving, happy couple together.
  • What to do when your partner is saying “we have no way to work things out. We keep having the same fights over and over again. Nothing ever gets resolved.” How to actually get things resolved to your mutual satisfaction.
  • What to do if your partner says “we have very little in common and few common interests.” How to start creating more common interests and to build from there.
  • How to get back together and make it work if you’re already separated and it’s not getting any better.
  • What to do if your partner is saying “I feel like whatever I do isn’t good enough for you. I feel like I’m in a no-win situation.” How to make them feel consistently accepted, appreciated and supported by you.
  • How to get back on track if your partner is saying “I don’t feel heard or understood or listened to by you.”
  • How to create a feeling of cooperation between the two of you when your partner says “I feel sad and mad because you turn on me, twist my words and attack me and make everything my fault.”
  • How to get your partner to try again when they say “I feel overwhelmed, numb and hopeless.”
  • What to do if your partner is saying “I get tense before you come home because I know you’ll find fault with me.” How to get back to looking forward to and enjoying spending time with each other.
  • How to rebuild trust and safety when you’ve told your partner that you were unhappy and wanted to split up. Then, you changed your mind and they now say they don’t know what to believe and they no longer feel safe in this relationship with you.


I will also show you:

  • How you can both reconnect to the love that brought you together in the first place.
  • How you can stop being reactive and being controlled by the other person’s negativity.
  • How you can turn around the negativity.
  • How you can be a better listener and make your partner feel listened to, understood and accepted.
  • How you can create mutual emotional support in your relationship.
  • How you can stop being jealous and pushing your partner away with your jealousy.
  • How you can keep parents, in-laws, other relatives, friends and/or co-workers from having a negative impact on your relationship.
  • How you can get and give consistent emotional supportive.
  • How you can prevent any (further) cheating in the relationship.
  • What you can do when you and your partner are very different from each other and have completely different interests.
  • The one way to speak to your partner that will cause your partner to open up to you, be more cooperative and positive and really hear what you have to say.
  • The absolute single best way to keep the positive momentum going after your partner gives you a second/next/LAST chance.
  • How to not blow your chances of saving your relationship by reverting back to your old ways of thinking, speaking and acting.
  • Why you and your partner have covered the same issues, frustrations and problems, over and over and over again, and yet some never seem to get them resolved and how to turn that around.
  • Why it’s almost always realistically possible to negotiate agreements with your partner that you both feel good about, and how to do that.
  • Why it’s NOT reasonable to expect your partner to cooperatively work things out with you right after you’ve told them what’s wrong with them.
  • Why you bringing up your hurts and resentment works against saving your relationship.
  • Why making, tracking and precisely keeping your agreements with your partner is critical to rebuilding your partner’s trust in you and how to do it.
  • How to successfully solve disagreements to your mutual satisfaction in under 2 minutes when you and your partner have differing memories about the contents of a previous agreement


Is it too late to save your relationship?

If your partner is still willing to communicate with you, even if it’s only by phone or e-mail, it’s probable that, with the right tools, you can save your relationship.

Does this take the place of relationship counseling?

No. Nor does relationship counseling take the place of what I’m giving you. This is the culmination of my 20+ years of knowledge and experience and innovations as a Relationship Saving Counselor. Much of what I’m giving you, is not something that a marriage counselor was taught in graduate school.

If you and your partner are open to relationship counseling, I would highly recommend it with the RIGHT counselor. When a relationship is in crisis, it’s in a very delicate state. Relationship counseling is not neutral. It can help make the relationship better. If done incorrectly, it can push the relationship over the edge.

I will teach you exactly what to look for and what questions to ask before you meet with a relationship counselor, to maximize the possibility that you pick the right one.

If you can’t find the right counselor, or if you need private coaching, I’ve included my phone number and contact information in “Save Your Relationship.”

What should you do right now

If you don’t get the right kind of skills and strategies and put them into practice, it’s much more likely that you’ll lose your loved one and your ability to stay together as a family.

Save Your Relationship will give you my time-tested, proven, step-by-step strategies needed to stop your breakup.

You can download Save Your Relationship right now for only a $37 down payment and within the next 7 minutes be on your way to getting what you need to start saving your relationship.

Your order will be processed immediately, and you’ll then be given “no brainer” instructions of how to download your own copy of Save Your Relationship right away.

Of course, our staff will be available if you need any help or guidance in easily downloading your Save Your Relationship home study course.

What you get when you buy Save Your Relationship

  • You get virtually every skill, strategy and technique I’ve ever found that works to help a person to stop their breakup.
  • You get all of this invaluable information through your own copy of the complete, in depth Save Your Relationship Homes Study Course downloadable

Workbook where I show you step by step what to do, how to do it and when to do it.

How much does Save Your Relationship cost you?

$37 down payment and $37.33 per month for the next 3 months.

That’s less than the cost of one session with an experienced marriage counselor.

That’s $148.99 for strategies to save your relationship for a lifetime. Imagine what it will cost you not to order Save Your Relationship.

How to get the quickest and best results from using Save Your Relationship:

As you apply the strategies, you should notice an immediate improvement. This will give you even greater motivation and momentum to try a few more strategies with your partner. You’ll see at the beginning of the workbook my suggestions on what steps to do first and why they’re most likely to work best for your specific situation.

100% Money Back Guarantee…

You get a 100% Money Back Guarantee. Simply use Save Your Relationship and try the strategies risk free. If the strategies and information you get aren’t helpful to you, I’ll happily refund your money, and you can keep Save Your Relationship.

My wish for you is to start using Save Your Relationship right away. Because, the sooner you use it, the greater the chance you have of saving your relationship. However, in terms of your money back guarantee, there’s no hurry. This is a one year money back guarantee for you.

Just click on the button below to order your own copy of Save Your Relationship safely with our secure order form.

I know I can help you as long as you take the next step. I look forward to hearing your happy news of how you used my strategies to save your relationship.

Take care,


Fred R. Talisman MFT

P.S. Will the strategies in Save Your Relationship stop your breakup?

That’s my goal. I have helped countless people save their relationships using the exact same strategies I’m giving you in Save Your Relationship. I get calls from people years later thanking me for those strategies and telling me how many happy years it’s been since I helped them get past their near breakup.

Many of those people, when they first called to get my help, were convinced that their relationship was beyond saving and that they were probably wasting their time even to try.

You know that what you’ve been doing to stop your breakup IS NOT WORKING.

All you can do is to do your best to save your relationship. However, doing your best is not only based on your depth and consistency of commitment to do your best.

It’s also based on getting the best skills and strategies you can find to save your relationship and mastering them. You’re getting my best skills and strategies to save your relationship based on my years of training and more importantly my 20+ years of finding out exactly what works and what doesn’t work to help you to save your relationship.

Get the Free Save Your Relationship™ Mini E-Course Now!

 

In the E-Course
Fred will show you:

  • How to stop the fighting and arguing.
  • How to stop the verbal abuse.
  • How to talk things out in a more cooperative, peaceful and friendly way.

Fred Talisman MFT
Relationship Saving Marriage Counselor for Over 20 Years

Call/text Fred now:
310-429-3658
fred@saveyourrelationship.com

My husband and I personify the saying, “Opposites attract,” and one Saturday three months ago we’d finally hit the wall; We were in that make it or break it moment. This was especially frustrating because for the ten months prior we’d been seeing a highly recommended psychologist who seemed to make our emotional situation worse. Every session went about the same: we’d air our discontents, yelling would commence, tears would fall, and the psychologist would “arbitrate”, but offer no tangible alternative ways of dealing with our conflict and emotions when he wasn’t there with us. Then he’d conclude that while we were both, “intelligent, kind, loving people, maybe you’re just not cut out to be together.” Nothing felt more awful than being told by a professional that our relationship was probably doomed. We knew we loved each other – and I knew there had to be some better way. In desperation on that particular Saturday I googled “how to save my marriage” and that took me to Fred’s website. Half an hour later we had him on the phone (on a Saturday, no less!). He asked us both one simple question, “Are you committed to saving your marriage?” Even though we were raw with anger, resentment, and hurt, we each said yes. And then he scheduled us a session for later that day. Ever since that first session Fred has been gently providing us with relationship skills we hadn’t been taught before. His approach is non-judgmental, and deliberately – remarkably – simple, and his techniques do work quickly if you are dedicated to following the steps he’s laid out for you. He provided us with time-tested ways to stop our fights before they start, and the techniques one needs to function more healthily in their relationship. Best of all he’s started to give us a way to better accept each other the way we are – rather than try to change one another. And he does this without psychoanalysis or psychobabble. It is a very refreshing approach to couples counseling; He’s not just a relationship saver, he’s a relationship builder. Thanks Fred!”
-Nichole and Jake Chambers

 “By the time I found Fred Talisman, Cindy was ready to break up with me. I was devastated. She is the person I love more than anyone. She is my soul mate. She felt that she could never trust me again and that she could never forgive me. Before I found Fred, I had tried other things and spoke to other people, but not only were their methods ineffective, some actually made things worse with her! I saw couples counseling with Fred as my last resort but she wouldn’t do it with me. I worked with Fred on my own while working with his home study course, ‘Save Your Relationship.’ I’m not geographically close to Fred’s office, so I worked with him by phone. To my amazement, working with Fred by phone was more valuable than any help I’ve gotten in person.

Thanks to Fred, she gave me a last chance. Fred gave me hope beyond hope. I was impressed with his depth of understanding and compassion. I saw the first improvements with her almost immediately after the first session I did with Fred. Cindy and I got married almost a year after the crisis that Fred got us through. Using the things that Fred taught me, my wife and I are now stronger than ever as a couple. Our relationship gets better everyday."

And that’s not all! She is now pregnant going on 20 weeks! I am so incredibly excited about what this little life will become. We are ecstatic. Everything is working really well. It’s amazing. I’m very grateful and thankful for all of Fred’s incredible help. The skills he taught me have also improved every other relationship in my life, including my friends, relatives, work mates and casual acquaintances. If everyone learned Fred’s skills and put them into practice, the world would be a much better place. I really can’t thank Fred enough and by the grace of God, I am on a much better track now with my wife. Fred not only showed me how to save my relationship. He also forever changed my life for the better. What I got from Fred is the most valuable help I have ever received.” What a difference he has made to our lives. Words do not say enough about how grateful I am. Thank you again Fred. I can’t thank Fred enough for all that he has done for us.”
-Dennis Hart

 “I called you because I really wanted to save my relationship. I feared that it was a lost cause and that we couldn’t get past the infidelity, the lack of trust and his fear of commitment. I want to thank you for the guidance, support, and help you have provided. I have learned so much about myself, relationships, and how to communicate to others from you. Everything you said makes sense and everything you taught me to do worked and continues to work. I realize I can use your skills not just to keep my relationship strong but for the rest of my life. You’ve given me invaluable life skills. I teach all my friends what I learned from you so they’re all getting the benefit of your help too. Thank you for showing me how to save my relationship. It’s in a really strong place and keeps getting better.”
-Marsha Robins

Can I help you save your relationship and help you to keep your family together? Probably. The best way to know if I can help you is for us to have a conversation. Call me now. I’m glad to spend some time talking to you. Once I hear about your situation I can tell you how I can help you. You can call or text me now at 310-429-3658, Or email me at fred@saveyourrelationship.com.
I serve the South Bay, Westside and San Fernando Valley communities. I do sessions in person, by FaceTime, by Skype video and by phone.

I'm really good at saving relationships. To get an idea if I can help you here’s some of the relationships I’ve saved in the words of my clients and what others have said about me as a relationship saving marriage counselor:

 “Before we came to Fred Talisman, my wife and I were on the verge of divorce. Issues had become so complex and intertwined that we couldn’t begin to sort through them. Also, the emotions associated with the issues were preventing us from being able to work them effectively. Trust had been breached as we “acted out” in various ways to relieve the stress. Fred provided both a supportive, safe container as well as the feedback necessary for us to separate the issues from our emotions and the issues from each other. He also taught us how to compartmentalize issues, breaking them down into simple negotiations. With his help, our marriage has transformed into a place where we can manage our relational and situational challenges in a way that brings us closer together, rather than pushing us apart. Thank you, Fred, for helping us save and positively transform our marriage!”
-David and Christina Litman

 “When he and I were in crisis last February, and looking like we were about to end our relationship, we agreed to get help as a last gasp attempt to possibly save “us.” I began the search for someone local, knowing that anyone we chose was a crap shoot at best. And I was feeling like if we are going to do this, I wanted to give us the best possible shot at a positive outcome. I found your info online, and I wish I could tell what it was that resonated with me, but something did and I convinced him to participate, at least to give it a try. Fred, it is hard to express in words the process, or how it worked (not trying to make it sound mystical here) but there is no doubt that it did. You brought clarity to so many issues and enabled us to rediscover the joy we had shared in each other in the past. We learned to laugh with each other again, and we have tools to keep any conflict from developing into something unnecessarily weighty. I believe we both feel that our communication skills and our depth of feelings for each other have been enhanced by the time spent with you. I wouldn’t hesitate to share your contact with anyone who confided in me that they were concerned about the future of their relationship–thanks to you, ours has a future and it is bright! Thanks for being the catalyst for this rebirth–YOU ROCK!”
-Mindy Paulson

 Fred was instrumental in helping my wife and I work through a very difficult chapter in our life. After helping us work through the immediate ‘crisis’, he went further and gave us the communication skills necessary to having a healthy relationship. These tools have transformed the way we interact and have allowed us to reach mutually beneficial agreements on items that had long been a source of conflict.”
-Stan Johnson

 

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